I am of the firm belief that the single most
important aspect of giving head is an individual’s
attitude towards it. This doesn’t mean that technique
isn’t important or shouldn’t be studied. It means that
good technique can only get you so far. It means that a
great attitude about sucking cock is going to help you
quickly develop and refine the skills required to make
your lover go nuts. It means that a great attitude
about giving head will make you want to practice a lot!
Sucking cock isn’t about doing a lover’s duty.
It isn’t about sucking him off as fast as you can to
get it over with. It isn’t even really about making
your lover happy.
It’s about you, about wanting your lover’s cock
inside your mouth so badly that you think that you’ll
die or go crazy if you can’t wrap your lips around it
right now.
When I’m giving head, it seems that all that I
love and lust after in my lover has been concentrated
down into his weenie. And every pleasure that I give
him, with my lips, my tongue and my hands is the ulti-
mate expression of all of these abstract feelings of
love and lust and passion towards him. For this reason,
giving my lover head is really making love to his cock,
with every touch designed to drive him insane with
pleasure until he finally comes in my mouth.
There is also an element of power and control
and domination that I love in a good blow job. If I’m
giving good head, my lover is totally under my control,
rendered helpless by the sensations that I’m making him
feel. The feel of his thighs shaking, his muscles
clenching, the sound of his moans, and finally coming
in my mouth, and even his semi-delirium after he comes,
all make me feel incredibly powerful. It was *me* who
made him feel all that, the feel of my touch on him. I
absolutely love that.
Personally, I love the feel of a freshly-
showered man with a freshly-washed cock. The feel of a
clean, large, hard erection in my mouth is absolutely
irresistible. I love different colored briefs, par-
ticularly dark green. Just the thought of a trim,
muscular man with a great ass, and a big dick all wrap-
ped up in green briefs is enough to get me wet. I think
of being on my knees and slowly pulling down those
green briefs, taking his cock in my mouth, caressing it
with my tongue, wrapping my lips around it and slowly
stroking on its length, using my tongue to put extra
pressure on it’s sensitive underside. But that is the
subject of another discussion…
